Chumash Shemos introduces a new entity. Up until now, we learned about The Avos and their families. We are now introduced to בני ישראל- The nation of Klal Yisrael. The Rambam writes that Paroah is also a reference to the יצר הרע, Mitzrayim is a reference to the body of a person, and Moshe is a reference to the Neshamah. As such, we can certainly look to gain lessons from The Parsha on how to confront the Paraoh in our own lives.
The Pasuk says : ויאמר אל עמו הנה עם בני ישראל רב ועצום ממנו, הבה נתחכמה לו
Paroah decides to trick Klal Yisrael into becoming slaves. As the Pasuk later says ” ויעבידו מצרים את מי ישראל בפרך” To which Chazal say בפה רך. They used trickery to cause to start working by stating that it was a patriotic duty to help build fortified cities, and it was only after Klal Yisrael joined did the Egyptians stop working and told the Jews : Now you have to continue working as slaves. This was the way Paroah tricked Klal Yisrael into becoming slaves. And The Yetzer Hara works is such ways as well. He tricks a person into falling by painting a false picture. And it’s our job to avoid that entrapment. Today on social media platforms such as Instagram you can follow a persons day and life, and see all their daily activities. You can see pictures of where they go out to eat, what they shop for, where they vacation etc. This leads to confusion and envy, and causes people to want to copy that lifestyle. This causes people to spend money they don’t have to copy their neighbors and leads to many problems, such as going into debt, Shalom Bayis problems and the like. This is the trickery of Paroah and his spiritual descendant the Yetzer Hara. The Yidishe way is Hatzanay Leches. What you do is your business, nobody else business, and should not make a difference on how I live my life. We need to stay away from Paroah trickery and not fall into the trap of הבה נתחכמה לו.
This leads to another strategy of Paroah. When Moshe and Aharon come to Paroah for the 1st time and demand he let Klal Yisrael go and serve Hashem Paraoh decides that the way to stop any thoughts of leaving is to make the work even harder for the Jews. And so Paroah states: תכבד העבודה על האנשים, let the work become even harder, so they will have no time to think about leaving. The מסילת ישרים writes that the Yetzer Hara works in the same way like Paroah; he gets a person caught up in daily life such as work and making money that he no longer has time to think about the important things in life. No time to make a חשבון הנפש, where am I heading in life? Is this the life I envisioned for myself when I was growing up? Am I heading in the right direction in important manners of life, or am I caught up in the minutia of life and forgetting about my spiritual aspirations? These are questions each Yid needs to think about from time to time, and the Yetzer doesn’t want him to ask them. So he gets a person distracted by a million different things so he won’t have time to think, similar to what Paroah did. And it’s our job to try and avoid that trickery of the Yetzer Hara and allow ourselves the time and space to reflect on who we are and where we’re heading in life.
Finally, there’s one more trickery of Paroah we need to avoid. A slave does not have an identity, rather he’s just a number, who’s fully subjugated to his master. And that was certainly part of what Paroah had in mind; to take away the individuality of each Yid by enslaving them. Yet we know that each person has his unique roll in life, which no one can take away. And the Torah eludes to this at the begining of the Parsha ואלה שמות בני ישראל, as Rashi points out “להודיע חבתן שנמשלו לכוכבים” Klal Yisrael are like shining stars, each with its unique roll. The Yetzer Hara too, tries to bring a person down by telling him he’s just a number among the thousands who are just are like him. But the Torah reminds us; No! You’re not a number, but a precious star whom Hashem cherishes and loves.
We’ll conclude with a story. A young Bachur in Lakewood was feeling that he wasn’t remarkable in any way, and lost his desire to learn. Instead of learning night Seder in Yeshiva, he went to a local assisted living facility and sat in the lounge with the local residents, watching television. After many nights sitting in the lounge, an elderly resident approached him and asked why he’s there watching television and not in Yeshiva? The boy replied that he feels he’s just a number, not an individual and has no drive to learn. The man rolled up his sleeve to reveal the tattooed number on his arm. ” The Germans wanted us to feel like numbers. But, no, you’re not a number. You’re a unique individual who can accomplish in life.” The young man took the words to heart and went back to Yeshiva. And that is a lesson we can all learn; not to be caught up in the trickery of Paroah and the Yetzer Hara, remember who we are and remember that we each have our own unique roll in life.
Weekly Parsha Shiur 